Sometimes people revolve their love with their lover around money! This should not be the case with any relationship. Money shouldn't get in the way of any ones love. Although sometimes the powers that be like to manipulate love. I have noticed a spike in this kind of behavior lately. It is uncalled for, unjust, and needs to be stopped.
This is why it takes understanding and openness in a relationship for things to truly work out. If you are hiding things from your lover. Like friends or close work associates then you are going to find out later that your love life might take a turn for the worse. Even if these friends are not that important to you.
Also you want to share with your lover what you really like, and let him/her preform, Its not just a one way ticket, also pay attention when he/she is talking to you. I know sometimes its hard when you are so busy with your little tired some life. Although sometimes listening pays off big time in the bed room!
A lot of guys just don't like to listen! I know I was one of them. You can truly triple your dating by just listening to women talk! Take mental notes of the things they like, Its just that simple! I know it sounds like planet of the apes here, but yes, even I have to admit women are strange sometimes.
You can basically talk to women about anything you want. There are lots of fish in the sea. I guess a good fail safe is, if they clown you for not having money, Say, "Lets go hunting", If they still clown you, then say, I guess ill just put the worm in your mouth next time then. It might work if your crashing and burning already. Although ill leave it up to you if you want to use a hook line or not! hehe..Get it? Just remember, That relationship might not work anyway. Especially if you are just lusting.
I would advise everyone to get married or think of a spiritual marriage before getting serious. It's amazing what you can do before marriage. Don't be disappointed if you are living with isolationists, or as i like to call them "the new Christians in the republican party". They are not going to change your love life! Only you have the power to do this!
Some Christians actually think that love is a sin! This just makes me sick! These Generational isolationists are what is wrong with America!
Anyway..back to the subject at hand.. I would say that.. an important tid bit is.. that you should always love yourself first before getting into a relationship of any kind. This is something that a US soldier told me. You have to love yourself before you can love anyone.
You will know when you are truly in love, your nights will be long, and hot! Love sessions might even go on for more then 24 hours straight, if both parties have the will for it! Of course with multiple orgasms from both parties. I have noticed that what ruins a lot of relationships is the will power to keep the Orgasm engine running is gone, or non existent! Also.. sometimes people get into relationships that should have never started to begin with, because of lust and the lack of actual attraction for one another.
This is why its important to think, is this someone I want to spend the rest of my life with? Think about this every time you start dating! I assure you, your dating will triple.
Thanks for reading my blog guys and gals!
Samuel J Desantos!
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